For all that you are young and crazy you are also brilliantly smart. People your age (and this is my chance to act like I'm SOOO much older than you) don't care about much. It's so much easier to just focus on the things they want and movie stars and people magazine, and not the rest of the world. But you? You care. You are feminist in the best way you can be -- by not giving up any part of yourself to anything anyone else might think about you. You make me think, and make me want to be tougher. You're strong in ways I can't even begin to explain, and I love you for that. You're independent without being overbearing. And in the midst of all of this, you help me make sense of Bear. Honestly, you're wonderful. *HUGS*