I know exactly how that feels and it hurts. Right now me and one of my closest friends are on incredibly rocky ground and it's largely due to the fact that we somehow got ourselves in a self-perpetuating cycle of being asses to each other. I struggle not to automatically dismiss the things he says just because he does the same to me. I like to think that I'm pretty easygoing and easy to be friends with, but he's shutting me out completely and that is not worth hanging on to. But I can't really find it in myself to think that I'm wrong for distancing myself from him just because he provides me no comfort and more than a little hurt. Is it selfish of me, or not? Almost impossible to answer.

It's all very backwards and confusing. And now you've got me thinking all cynical and philosophical. Stop that.